As the child grows and develops, parents are increasingly concerned about the issue - such as whether we like it? Terrible, if my mother's girlfriend has a baby of the same age, which is something it is doing so that our still does. At once there is an irresistible urge to rush to the doctor for the final eradication of the existing "shortcomings."
In this regard, the first piece of advice:do not waste time and nerves for permanent "irregularities" in their own child.Believe me: really serious disease in which the baby will not be able to learn to crawl, sit, or walk, are rare.It is very unlikely that your child has no teeth appeared that all his life he preferred to eat from the nipple to the process of crawling gave him more joy than walking. No fuss - all the time. But this time, in each case individually. And do not rush things - all learned, and your learn.You only get the main thing - parents are obliged to do everything really depends on them to render tribute to the impact on growth and development of the baby. And this - the right care, feeding management, massage, gymnastics, hardening, fresh air.And if a child from birth "something wrong" (congenital or hereditary diseases, birth trauma, low weight, allergies and so on. N.), It says only one thing - the event, it is desirable for the child is absolutely normal when health problems become mandatory. Because of the weak and sickly child's infringement of the above principles of care is not just bad, and very dangerous.Weak and sickly impossible to live in conditions of overheating, with no permanent residence in the fresh air and swimming for it - a powerful stimulant, allowed to become the same as everyone. And vitamin D it requires, and citrus fruits with chocolate is more dangerous, and the carpets in the room even more harmful.I really do not want to talk in the book about that, and when it should happen with the child. The mentality of parents, especially beginners - a very fragile thing, and I really am afraid that you will spend your last nerves to study the so-called "standards."So faithfully do what is up to you. And everything else: notice shortcomings, timely diagnosis, to send for examination or consultation, appropriate treatment - you do not. This is the second half of the way, which can pass only a doctor, but as long as you get over half of the first - will be in the clinic is not when he wants, and when you will be scheduled to come (in the age of one month, three months, six etc.). Once again, pay attention: if a little "not normal" - self-will. If it is absolutely "not normal" - it's not parents should be noted, and the doctor. And he's certainly noticed, you just give him that opportunity.If the morbid curiosity because you're still trying to independently determine the "correct", "timely" and "normal" child, remember that you can not approach the child from the standpoint of mathematics. There can be no definitive standards - how many have to eat, how much must weigh what must be a long and so. D. All of the above is important, but not essential. Much more importantly, the reaction to his surroundings, appetite, sleep and health.A lot of time (when it begins to hold head, sit, stand, crawl) depend on the educational system, ie. E. Parents. For example, if the child sleeps on his stomach, the head before he holds in comparison with the baby sleeping in the back. The more actively massages and gymnastics than cool water when bathing, the smaller the child extra kilos (or grams - does not matter) - the better developed muscles, the greater the opportunity to sit in a timely manner, crawl, stand up, go.There are things about which, however, ought to know something, and we will do is quite simple - call the spade a spade, paying attention to the points of fundamental importance for the health of the child and his parents a peace of mind.In general, the intensity of the brain development of children depends on the number of stimuli, they received: the more you can see and hear, the more you can feel the skin, the better. About you a sense of proportion, of course, do not forget.
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